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Welcome and thank you for visiting.

I would like you to know that I am one of the most positive (pun intended) people you will ever meet. After two failed marriages, I finally landed in the most disastrous relationship of all and contracted the HIV virus at the very late age of 46, diagnosed on the 11th November 2004 while living in KwaZulu Natal, South Africa.

It is not a depressing story of my life but is in fact a celebration and insight into how to survive living with HIV & AIDS.

The life threatening condition changed the way I thought, lived, ate, slept, had relationships, related to other people and also changing with who and where I socialised .

The perception amongst the black South African community is that white people, specifically white women are not vulnerable to HIV & AIDS; my knowledge of this comes from actual counselling of the black South African community, which is partly what inspired me to share my status assisting in removing the stigma associated with the disease.

I do not for a minute believe that the white South African community feels that they are as vulnerable as the black community. They are in denial and terrified to acknowledge that they are at risk or already HIV positive. You know that ‘ostrich head in the ground’ syndrome – if they cannot see it, it is not there. Due to the lack of knowledge and misinformation, the white community at large knows very little about the disease.

This website was created to share some of my experiences, gather information, debate issues, and where possible assist others in need of information by pointing them in the right direction for their specific needs.

The need for an English speaking HIV & AIDS Support Group arose and has subsequently flourished. It includes an IEC Programme (Information-Education-Communication) for the benefit of individuals living with the virus.


To mobilise and empower the South African business sector as well as the population at large to take effective action on HIV & AIDS.


• Create an understanding of how HIV is transmitted in an attempt to curb the ongoing spread of the  disease.
• Educate through my experience and personal testimony of living with HIV & AIDS.
• Create awareness on how HIV & AIDS affects us all as a global community, infected or not.
• Promote the view that those living with HIV & AIDS require understanding and consideration rather than judgment with a stigma attached to it as no one ‘deserves’ this disease.